Asking for Help

(Now that summer is here, it is time for me to discuss different educational topics alphabetically. Please join in the conversation and tell me what you think!)

Asking for help is really hard for my students. They see needing help as a sign of weakness. It is important that we teach students the importance of asking for help when it is needed. This is different than asking for help when we are too lazy to try and we need to teach students the difference.

Asking for help is important for a number of reasons. It can:

• Help you to achieve your goals. When you're struggling to achieve a goal, asking for help from someone who is more experienced or knowledgeable can give you the support and guidance you need to succeed.
• Reduce stress and anxiety. Carrying the burden of trying to do everything on your own can be stressful and anxiety-inducing. Asking for help can lighten your load and give you peace of mind knowing that you're not alone.
• Build stronger relationships. When you ask for help, you're essentially showing someone that you trust and value their opinion. This can help to build stronger relationships with the people around you.
• Help you to learn and grow. When you're forced to step outside of your comfort zone and ask for help, you're opening yourself up to new experiences and learning opportunities. This can help you to grow as a person and become more confident in your abilities.

Of course, asking for help can be difficult. It can be scary to admit that you need help, and you may worry about being judged or rejected. However, the benefits of asking for help far outweigh the risks. If you're struggling with something, don't be afraid to reach out for help. You'll be glad you did.

Here are some tips for asking for help:

• Be specific about what you need help with.
• Be clear about your expectations.
• Be grateful for the help you receive.
• Be willing to offer help in return.

Remember, asking for help is not a sign of weakness. It's a sign of strength and maturity. So don't be afraid to ask for help when you need it. You'll be glad you did. This will help you be more successful in the classroom and in life.