“If you often find yourself saying “sorry” in a way that doesn’t advance the conversation, it might be interesting to substitute “thank you” instead.”
I thought of ways that this could be used in the classroom.
Instead of: I’m sorry some of you didn’t do your homework.
Substitute: Thank you to those of you who did the homework so they can get better at learning this skill.
Instead of: I’m sorry you can’t “do what you want.”
Substitute: Thank you for willing to take a risk and trying something new.
How you word something can make a big difference on how an assignment is perceived. It might make some people more willing to complete a task.
I’ve heard teachers even tell the class that they are going to learn something hard and it may be difficult. That already has some of the students prepared to not be successful.
Instead, I tell my students that they are going to learn something challenging and it is always fun to face a challenge. Luckily we are all there to support each other so we are not alone when we face these challenges. Challenges can be fun and exciting, especially when we are together with friends.
What a difference this can make when teaching a lesson. The students in my class tend to look forward to learning new things whereas the other class dreads this event.
As teachers, we need to choose our words carefully in order to help our students be successful in our classes and in life.
What do you say differently than others to help your students be successful? Please share.
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