Tuesday, April 14, 2009

Watch Your Words!

I recently read an article in the newspaper titled Proposed 'tofu' license plate deemed obscene which talks about how the highway department refused to give a lady this vanity plate because she loves tofu and wanted the plate to say ILVTOFU. Their excuse was "We don't allow 'FU' because some people could read that as street language for sex."

Are we beginning to censor things too much? I admit that when I hear young people around me using profanity as common language, it makes me cringe. Who determines what is profane and what isn’t? So much street language now can mean so many different things.

I remember when “bad” actually meant bad and not good, but only when it is used in certain situations. My students used to really have a hard time when we read books that said someone was happy by using the word “gay”. And if the word “breast” was in a story, the boys practically fell out of their chairs.

I attended Furman University to get my degree in teaching and at football games, the President of the university would get up in front of the stands and yell, “FU one time, FU two times, FU three times, FU alllllllllllllll the time!” Would he banned today from doing that?

What about words that people use for different body parts but are innocuous if used in other ways? I used to allow my students to use the word “butt” in my room rather than the other alternative but they would tell me that they got a detention from another teacher for using it in that classroom. I explained to them that some teachers had different feelings about words that offended them and this was a lesson in real life. When they got out into the real world, they needed to watch their language closely.

But when we start reading too much into this and trying to stop people from using words that might offend someone, aren’t we becoming too controlling? Are we overreacting? If we start banning words, what words will we have left? Will we have to describe something rather than using the actual word? And what if one of the words in the description is considered profane? My students had a hard enough time with expressing themselves appropriately but I hate to think of what will happen if we start trying to censor all of their words.

What do you think? Should this vanity plate be allowed? What message does this give to our students?

Original image: 'Cheesecake' http://www.flickr.com/photos/33529090@N00/678296933by: John Abell

11 comments:

Pat Sine said...

Unfortunately, as likely as not, she got it from her father when she got the car as a present.

Jamie Gustin said...

I think we teach our children that words mean something and we should be considerate of our audience when we speak and write.

John Wills Lloyd said...

I agree that reading meaning into things is a big part of this problem. It's also a major problem with understanding behavior: We interpret the behavior as having meaning. Then, there's the role that reading meaning into things plays in arguments (e.g., "She said that just to make me angry"). And on and on....

siobhan curious said...

I struggle with this a lot. I teach college, and in general I'm fairly lax with my own use of language. I don't have an issue with students saying they are "pissed off" or that something is a "pain in the ass," but I do feel that anything stronger than that is inappropriate. I find, however, that when I don't comment on milder expressions like those above, some students escalate to using much coarser language. So I've reigned things in in recent years and told students I expect them to use a "consistently professional tone."

Andrew Pass said...

What a great question to prompt thinking. I think, if I was in the position to make a decision here, I would have allowed the word tofu to appear on a license plate, since a good argument could be made to support its use. The license plate would probably also bring a smile or a laugh to the faces of most adults who read it. Can you imagine the looks that the driver would get?

Once we start to censor words, what will be censor next? There's an old saying that in a place where books are burned people will be burned next.

Mister Teacher said...

TOFU?? Sheesh, people have become too hyper-sensitive. Love the bit about Furman's rally cry, though. I think that DEFINITELY wouldn't fly nowadays though. hehehe
My buddy, a big Terminator fan, always talked about getting a license plate that read FAHQ (try it phonetically).

loonyhiker said...

Pat: That is possible.

loonyhiker said...

Jamie: I agree but there comes a point when no matter what you say, someone could find it offensive.

loonyhiker said...

John: I agree and I guess that is why I don't like using the phone. I like to see facial expressions and body language.

loonyhiker said...

Siobhan: I like that phrase and will have to use that in the future!

loonyhiker said...

Mister Teacher: Okay, now you have me laughing! LOL